Category Archives: New Baby

The Juggle Ramps Up Anxiety for Working Mothers

A couple of weeks ago psychologist Alison Gopnik wrote a widely read editorial in The New York Times about how babies learn.  Her conclusion wasn’t earth-shattering — in fact many of us knew this already — we don’t need fancy … Continue reading

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The Myth of the Judging Mommy

Add to the things I have to be thankful for: I’ve never had a playdate like the ones Emily Bazelon describes in her recent Double X post Defending the Playdate.  Reading the piece, I wonder — is this really the … Continue reading

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Are Working Parents Giving Their Children as Many Cuddles as Stay-at-Home Parents?

Over the weekend Lisa Belkin’s Motherlode column sparked another round of so-called “mommy wars.”  The post discussed a recent study from the Australian Institute of Family Studies indicating that the children of working mothers receive just as much “cuddle time” … Continue reading

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Thinking Beyond The Infant Years

Lisa Belkin at The New York Times‘ Motherlode recently posted this letter from a reader named Anna asking whether she should quit working to stay home with her three-month old daughter.  Anna writes: I returned to work last week, and … Continue reading

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Working Mothers and Cloth Diapers: Five Tips for Making it Work

While in theory I’m for cloth diapers (better for the environment, cheaper and possibly healthier), in practice I never even tried.  With so many things to learn in those early weeks, and little time for laundry, I thought it was … Continue reading

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Five Ways Your Sitter Can Make Your Life Easier

For a lot of us who aren’t used to having employees in our homes, expressing our needs and expectations to a sitter is more difficult that the same task in the office.  I hired our first nanny when Baby Bee … Continue reading

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More on Jill Lepore’s Pumping Article

Hurrah to Christen Clifford for her Huffington Post piece on Jill Lepore’s pumping article in The New Yorker.   With a few weeks distance on the article, I’ve been thinking that Lepore’s insinuation that pumping deprives babies of the real … Continue reading

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The Ultimate Showdown: Nanny Versus Daycare

After spending his first year one on one with a nanny in our home, Baby Bee switched to full-time daycare at 12 months.  (The center calls itself an “early childhood education program,” but it’s really just high quality daycare.)  Since our current … Continue reading

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Jill Lepore on Breastpumps in The New Yorker

Thank you, Kate Harding , for your response in Salon to Jill Lepore’s January 12th New Yorker article about breastfeeding and pumping.  As someone who breastfed for 17 months and pumped for nearly a year after going back to work, I too … Continue reading

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Resisting the Siren Call of the Cupcake

Women, resist the siren call of the cupcake!, an editorial in Saturday’s Times of London Online takes a relatively hardline position on working mothers using the story of Rachida Dati, the French Justice Minister who returned to work five days after … Continue reading

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